Workplace Bullying: Is your partner or lover a victim?

Well this isn't a question but im sorry for you and her that isn't right at all but if what you say is true and she is in total denial then there is nothing you can do. You have my sympathy I cant believe that workplace bulling can be as eextremeand have as lasting rrepercussionsas you described I am truly sorry for the both of you and hope that someday in the end everything will work out for the best whatever that may be.