Please Help :( , thesee are the tough times .?

First off I'm a very outgoing person . Like to laugh ; be a bit loud; Funny; a little fem, not too much .I'm unsure of my uality . I was straight ; then i noticed i started checking more and more guys out and like Joey Diamond <3 aha ; so I was like "I'm Bi" , And this hella pretty bi girl ,we became friends ; and it was coo . But we started hanging out with more and more gay people ; and i'm not feeling it at all . they were acting way too flaming; like too gay; and idk. and i started hanging out with my straight black friends , even though i can't be as outgoing because it would come off as gay to them ;it was still good. And now I really don't know what I am . Am I straight just going thru a phase? what am I? . . liek it wil make or break my future plans. Please help ; thanks .