My mom wants me to break up with my bf. what would u do if u were me? i rlly need help. i'm very depressed :(?

How would u feel if your mum wants u to break up with someone u love. She wants u try and experience other guys rather than settling with that person. I've been going out with my bf for over a yr. He's sweet, nice, understanding & I've never known anyone like him who will work so hard for us and who will save up money to see me. Yes, I'm in long distance relationship and that is not something i should be ashamed of. I did make mistake from the past by lying to my parents, wagged to see him and for not telling my parents about us for 7 months. But i don't get why my mum still go on about it when i know we made mistake and learned something from it. Not like having mistake is a crime anyway. I'm 17 in may & my bf will b 19 in may too. He lives in the Perth which is the other part of Australia and i live in Qld. My mum is so shallow to him and so judgemental. I don't get the fact why she doesn't like him when he doesn't drink, smoke, use drugs etc. would she rather let me be with someone who is.. let's just say close to being perfect but a total jerk? She always say stuff like how i think I'm very ugly for staying with this guy when i could try other guys and she thinks that i think there will be no other guys left for me by staying with this person. She should be thankful that i am not one of those other girls who plays with guys. She told my bf that he's allowed to visit me this year and nxt yr and ended up not letting him see me :( I don't know what to do. She is very immature i swear to god and she doesn't understand how i feel cuz apparently she just worry about me and she is doing it for my future? She wants me to be with someone say Swedish guy cuz apparently they are very nice and she told me that once i live with my bf she doesn't ever want to see me at her place someday especially if i ended up having kids with this guy, she told met that she never want to see our kids? Like who says that? should i break up with my bf? I tried and do that last year when he stayed at my house but man... couldn't do it cuz he was totally crying and so hurt :( i love him and he is totally in to me and is willing to wait for me no matter how long it will take.He even begged on his knees when i was gotta break up with him. Should i find someone who is a jerk and say if my mum will like it if i ended up being with some jerk and always am heartbroken since this jerk will b playing around with some other girls? i rlly don't know what to do. sorry if takes like forever to read this but i just want to tell u how i feel and give me a piece of advice thanks. Appreciate it. xx