Is It Ok That I'm Looking For the perfect adoptive home?

After being in foster care for a long time i have experienced many things and have been with a multitude of families. Now that i am " adoptable" everyone is making it seem as though my criteria for an adoptive parent is too much. I am not looking for a perfect person just someone who i can build a life with. I anticipate arguments and such but in the right home they won't be explosive just normal. I'm searching for the perfect place for me, not someone who's perfect.